"Illiterate?" hahaha.
You use systems critique as an excuse to not even try. That's all it is for you. A reason why you don't have what you want. You have to take steps and earn what you want.
No one is going to mail you a wife like WASP used to want people to do.
Things are crazy right now but it's going to take a lot longer to change the system than it will to change yourself. If you want access to women these days then you have to do something to set yourself apart from all the others.