Ever tried FullRBF?
Discussion
Oh its fine. If the default isn't changed you can always use a fullrbf peering client and there's already a few mining pools that use fullrbf.
https://github.com/petertodd/bitcoin/tree/full-rbf-v25.0
But it would be better for fee estimation for users to use this instead of a transaction boosting service.
Mempool is not consensus remember.