๐ฎโฌ๏ธ tarot:
maturity is not just about aging - it is recognising fallibility in yourself and others. it is an ability to remove judgement, usually imposed because of shame or fear - it is knowing you cannot police or change everything except yourself. can you filter your own output despite the trauma of cruel input? that is maturity. not returning or promoting hate even though that's what your given. so many are focused on becoming a member or fitting into a group in order to belong and "be safe". most forget to question if the cost of belonging is their self-respect or their own barometer for ethical behavior. maturity is not just in relationships - it is also for yourself. maturity brings your own worldview into focus - honesty. are you honest with yourself? because how could you be honest anywhere else if you lie to yourself. maybe your needs are not the same as someone else - why are you following a path which leads you toward something outside your needs because you are told you need it? skunk is one of my favourite medicine cards: powerful feminine energy is known by reputation and therefore requires no defense. skunk medicine is about not requiring a natural defense mechanism - your scent precedes you; you are known. intense feminine energy is known. even if the mind cannot explain why - you know when a powerful mature woman is in your midst. she does not need to have a violence methodology, or a weapon: she unnerves you because she's standing there, quietly. "you smell her coming". the cheap metal mind that turns your finger green - the ring you thought was gold - is experiencing an exposure. time is slow right now but it is about to speed up. you will jump the tracks if you are not in a mature mindset - still scamming, still hiding, still manipulating. there is a seriousness to this next turn. less tolerance for deceit, for cruelty, for fake papers, fake attempts, fake news, fake guidelines, fake intent. you might find little patience being that cheap let's mind in deeply emotional spaces. many are reckoning their emotional weight and struggling; and in sweeps the same scammer con doing the same schtick, totally clueless about the nature of the moment. this is the "exit chased by a bear" sort of energy from a winters tale. real partners do not always look like romance or friends or family. you might not even notice how deeply connected they are. pairs still together after the past few years are tough. stop trying to split them up or "find out" because they have kept notes about who you are - and that patience is wearing thin.
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