Circumstances do not matter, only your state of being matters. Circumstances are the result of state of being. State of being is not the result of circumstances. You may choose to create circumstances that reinforce certain states of being but the state of being is what caused the circumstances and thus the circumstances are illusionary, not real, just a reflection, a hallucination, a projection. Thus then, when you see circumstances, neutralize them, be neutral to them. Do not imbue them with meaning that you do not prefer. Take a moment of pause and then infuse them with the meaning that you do prefer so that they can then give you the effect that you prefer 💫🌹🥰