The joke here is they are both communicating on a centralised relay
Discussion
Only if you use primal. You can choose relays in most clients and the client will read from them and verify they are real. Decentralization is achieved via reading from shared relays owned by different people.
If everyone uses the same 3-5 relays nostr is not decentralised and susceptible to censorship.
Users need to be encouraged to run their own relays, and clients need to help users connect to them.
yeah we’ll get there. its ok for this number of users, but we’ll definitely need full outbox at scale