Ukraine is agressing it's own people by sending (part of them) into the meat grinder against their will.

When service is not voluntary, the government is murdering it's own population. The 1yo baby was a soldier just some years into its first assignment.

To make distinction between civilian casualities and servimen, service has to be voluntary.

That's why you area- and firebombed German cities in ww2, that's why you nuked Japan.