Yea I know. I've never liked Twitter and the whole setup. Reddits downside is the anxiety of getting banned so there's that restraint. But here I can actually say what's up and curse. so fedi is releaving in that way where reddit makes me tense. Lemmy is a fedi alternative to reddit, but my instance exploding-heads.com doesn't have that much ppl. So not that much engagement. Also every instance defederate from us bc we r conservative