The choice you’re facing is a hard one, you and your partner are the only ones that can make that decision.
Imagine yourself at the end of your life, would you rather have taken the chance of becoming a father or have have lived a more comfortable/luxorious life.
As a father of two I feel my life has become more meaningfull since, but there have been hard times as well.
Partner 100% has always said to me since we met she wants to be a mother - myself I’m not bothered but that’s my personality.
Only issue mentally I have is that BTC will appreciate for us to live a good life but she wants babies and most ladies are the same..
Sometimes the negativity of the world makes my mind fucked because of how the fiat system works..
I’m gonna placed 5 years backwards
Not all woman aspire to become a mother, but if she has been pretty upfront with you.
It is up to you to determine if she is the person you want to grow old with and try to become parents together; ergo worth the five year setback.
Hope you find the wisdom to make a decision.
Thanks for the insight..
Pretty fucked up knowing you can’t do it naturally - that’s also a mind fuck for me..
