There are no trans women who don't try to fit that box, because the entire premise of transgender ideology is that you can become the opposite sex entirely by claiming that you are them and then behaving like a sexist stereotype. If that weren't the case there would be no need to identify as trans, because everyone would be fine just as they are, gender-nonconformant or otherwise.

Nobody can change sex. Your sex is written in your DNA. A man can never ovulate. A woman can never produce sperm. The only thing these impostors can try to do is mutilate their bodies to ghastly imitations.

This entire agenda is homophobic, misogynistic, regressive, repressive, and heteronormative. They are now the oppressors. If you don't understand why then you are part of the problem and thus an oppressor yourself.