I will figure out how to host my own relay, and client, and look down on you all
Discussion
hosting your own relay has little point if no one uses it
I think clients can get your relay list from relays and still get in touch with you even if one relay bans you.
yes they can do that, point is you dont need your own relay for that, you will likely only have your own content on your own relay which you may aswell have the client back it up and resend
you could have a relay mirror content that would be useful, a client could cache it too tho