Can you give an identifying hint as to this 'person' you're referring to? I keep seeing these vague references and everything becomes very tedious, unnecessarily frustrating.

For example, there have been many many comments to the point where intentions are so mudied and so many things were said that assuming good intentions becomes a losing battle unto itself.

I don't quite understand how do you get any information on/from this 'person' if you can't interact? I have asked a few ppl and never get an answer.