I'd add that it's absolutely normal and ok to feel nothing for your baby in first hours, days, weeks. Many mums are absolutely freaking out around their firstborn and the popular belief that they should now dive in parental love could crush them. I had nothing for my kid for several days to weeks. I was guarding him like insane, but was so overwhelmed and exhausted that love was not there. It's normal to not fall in love, other harmless emotions are also natural