I dont know if its narcissism per se. I care alot about people. But in different circumstances, i will only think about whether something is true or not, and will just say it.
You would not believe some of the things ive said in different situations 😂. For me the process has been learning how to wait, or add a few more words to not just blow people out. Being married to someone who knows me and laughs at it has helped.