Your process, right there.
You are a remarkable outlier on the bell curve, on what is now known professionally as "Low Self-Monitoring", but which our ancestors are believed to have termed "sincerity".
Apparently it was valued. :-p
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I suppose some men prefer guileless women. You don't have to interpret anything we say or do, as we speak with such transparent naivete.
Like a child.
But we always need lots of protection. I don't know if that's a bug or a feature.
I think my husband likes that about me.
Constantly strategizing, but rarely scheming. Outspoken and outgoing, but physically timid and easily startled.
Such an odd combination.
Perhaps I'm an acquired taste.