I do not use free relays. Trying avoid shower girl.
So, if you want to be visible for me and for people like me, you have to pay for some popular relays.
In some client (snort) you can choose how to use different relays: for writing or for reading.
You don't have to pay for relay if you use it for read-only.
What paid relays are you using?
Also, if I'm only on paid relays can other people who are on free relays see and interact with my notes?
I think wss://eden.nostr.land was the first an seems popular. Wine is nice, if you add wss://filter.nostr.wine/YOUR_NPUB.
Anyone can see what is happening on the paid relays, but they will not be able to interact with you. I mean, you can't see what they are doing with the nodes you are not connected to.
