The role you give your brother is given you, and you will walk the way you pointed out to him because it is your judgment on yourself.
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especially relevant to me nowadays with a neighbour I'm struggling with. He annoys the hell out of me, but I know it's my own issue, so though part of me still gets mad, I also know there's nothing fundamentally wrong with him, and it serves me as a good way to practice love and acceptance.