I have a couple of wallets and I’ll explain why. I’m using Lightning Tip Bot (https://LN.tips) with Nostr. You set it up with telegram and then can link it to Zeus, Alby, or BlueWallet to control it. Wallet of Satoshi is great too. You just have to everything within their own app. They both provide full support for Nostr features. However they are both custodial, so I don’t keep a large balance in them. If the balance gets to be more than a few dollars worth of sats, I move the excess sats to a non-custodial wallet. My favorite is Breez. Phoenix is good too.