Even if you’re a devoted feminist, your job may be more akin to combating systemic bias embedded in patriarchal social structures rather than engaging in individual confrontations with men you encounter in your life. Many women seek support from their boyfriends or male spouses to dominate conversations with them and mislabel it as feminism. Others constantly seek opportunities to engage in futile fights with random men on the Internet and call it feminism. I doubt they’ve ever read any academically significant feminist books. It’s more probable that their understanding of feminism is shaped by the images portrayed in movies and female-oriented marketing materials from various brands.
Discussion
I personally find it more entertaining to date strong men (mental strength is far more crucial than physical strength, although physical strength is also important) because they present me with greater challenges. Life becomes monotonous without any challenges. Continuous growth, both mentally and physically, arises from having individuals who can consistently challenge you, allowing you to learn from their feedback and criticisms. Weak individuals attempt to surround themselves with people pleasers and suckers. Strong people, on the other hand, don’t require such a network. They possess the ability to think independently and learn from even harsh criticisms. That’s the true strength I seek in a partner.
So, let’s return to the initial topic of Steve Yeun. I’m not implying that he’s a weak individual, but it’s undeniable that he doesn’t appear particularly strong either. (Apologies, Steve 😅)