Anyone who thinks what you've outlined is an insane person who has never met a woman in real life.
Or another guy for that matter.
Perpetual internet losers.
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We actually have trouble getting men to use Nostr because they can get hit with so much garbage during onboarding. They're totally grossed out.
nostr:npub1manlnflyzyjhgh970t8mmngrdytcp3jrmaa66u846ggg7t20cgqqvyn9tn is right that we need sane-person-friendly onboarding options.
clients need to have a way to funnel people into a safe space by electing to during their setup to utilize a WoT based on a suggested follow list, or a collective filter ( this person has been flagged for shitty thing 5 times so is filtered out of safe mode), then users can peel away the protection ( and ofcourse go wild west from the get go). thats, Moro's thoughts...
Yes, that's what his project is about.
It's like with Google image search. The crawlers go over the whole Internet, suppress obvious kiddie porn and other horrendous stuff, and then add safe-search options for people who want to search for "Europe through the back door" and get Rick Steve's travel guide as the first result.
I distictly did not have that problem but I may have simply been fortunate there.
I also had the patience to curate away the garbage that I'm so used to seeing in "regular social media."
Either way, I see the problem that needs to be solved for sure.
A lot depends upon the client and relays that you start off with.
