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As people get older, they get grumpy and lose the wonder of life because they think they've already seen everything and know what it's about. Their conviction blinds them to any new experience of it.

When we first harnessed electricity or radio waves, people thought it was magic...audio and video transporting through the air invisibly. Many were afraid of the tech. Now, people take it for granted that they can just plug a device into the wall and it "comes alive." They stop seeing the magic or new possibilities of it.

I believe in living life in wonder, in awe of things I think I already "know". Like a kid watching the same movie over and over not getting bored, each time finding something new to enjoy or understand about it. Not thinking I already "know" and shutting myself off from any new experience of it or new data about it.

At any moment, I can learn or experience something new about people, places, and things, that I thought I already "knew". The ability to add this new data into my "good idea", to shift my paradigm, allows me to get out of my story about it, and be with it in the present moment.

It's good to have a "good idea" about things we've seen before, it can protect us from harm. A good idea can grow, it can be updated with new information. A conviction can not. A conviction can be dangerous. A conviction stops listening to reality. A conviction is a death.

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Beautifully put. Absolutely brilliant. 🔥🔥

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❤️. Just ❤️.

Sorry I'm so cheap with my zaps. Would love to give more for this, but you know, I'm being a good Bitcoiner and raising 4 kids lol.

Thank you 💜💜💜

ava, i have to represent. older(me) has not tarnished my wonder of this world & i embrace new ideas. og Tesla freak(not Elon) from yestryr & still delving. Always consider Allways/luv ya!

Beautiful 💜✊💜

t-y Beautiful! my beautiful(focus filter)is your passthru all the best!

Maybe “as people get old in spirit”… ? Otherwise love this ❤️‍🔥💯

That’s my conviction anyway 🤣

I’m older (50’s), but I’ve never been happier or more excited for the future.

But let’s just say I don’t have many frens my age that I connect with.

I was deeply involved in the evolution of the public Internet in the 1990’s, but I forgot to step back and enjoy the ride.

This time, I’m very much enjoying the journey 😄

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It’s hard not to be cynical in this day and age. If you’re not, you’re either stupid AF or blind. 🤷🏻‍♂️

You’re confusing stubbornness with conviction. They are very different.

Conviction is a requirement for progress. It requires constant testing and reevaluation under new info. For this reason, it craves new experiences and ideas. It hardens it. Emboldens it. If it fails any tests, the conviction dies. With time, conviction grows.

Stubbornness is indifferent to progress. It does not care about new data - in fact, it hates it. It runs away from tests and experiences. It wants to live no matter the cost. It lashes out at anything that threatens it. With time, it weakens.

Both react to time. Time has a way of eroding all of the weak things away, and only the strong things remain. Conviction is strength.

Your declaration, itself, is a conviction. You should hope that it’s not stubbornness.

Old people are just grumpy because it can be frustrating watching younger people repeat the same mistakes they made. Those old people aren’t yet old enough to realize that those mistakes are a built-in cost towards growth. It’s a good thing. Really old people smile when they see these mistakes, and aren’t concerned at all. Like watching a child learn how to ride a bike - the skinned knees are a requirement.