Its somewhere in here https://nostrudel.ninja/#/
I have to re-figure it out every time I do it, though
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Oh! I remember now. Search your name or npub (might have to fiddle with the relays to search with), then slide the top tabs to the right.
Looks like its actually scroll down now. They changed something. Looks like no one has muted you. You gotta put in some elbow grease to earn a mute.