If anybody knows why any of these shouldn't be a default option, please let me know.

"wss://nostr.einundzwanzig.space/",

"wss://relay.primal.net/",

"wss://nostrue.com/",

"wss://relay.exit.pub/",

"wss://relay.damus.io/",

"wss://relay.nostr.band/",

"wss://nostr.lu.ke/",

"wss://relayable.org/",

"wss://offchain.pub/",

"wss://relay.nostr.bg/",

"wss://nostr.bitcoiner.social/",

"wss://n.ok0.org/",

"wss://nostr.oxtr.dev/",

"wss://purplerelay.com/",

"wss://relay.mutinywallet.com/",

"wss://nostr.sathoarder.com/",

"wss://relay.nostr.jabber.ch/",

"wss://bostr.lecturify.net/",

"wss://nostr.data.haus/",

"wss://relay.nostr.net/",

If you have other relays you want to be default in gossip, sorry it doesn't work that way. I use a fixed algorithm to pick the relays so that it will be as unbiased as possible.