Yeah thanks man - appreciate the time it took to write this post..

My wife told me from day one she wanted kids and that was one of her non negotiables.. now that we tried and I’m the one who can’t give her what she wants I believe for her because she is younger than me is to find someone who is able to give her kids and a family the normal way.. it’s always gonna be in the back of my mind that the kid is genetically not mine.. I don’t think anyone can ever get over that - unless I’m missing the point here..