I feel you. You can't help everyone. And it's not your fault. If they're not open to it, that's their problem. Open network. Closed network. They all talk afterward. I just make sure my circle can reach me if they need help. Plenty of family and friends laugh at you. But you get used to that too. Don't worry if you take good care of yourself, your family, and your friends. Some people get on the train. Some get off. And some stay put. 😉