I have no problem with your distaste of how we’ve strayed from the true history of Christmas, and all the consumerism that now dominates the holiday.
The only reason I even engaged with you was because you said “Nobody ever really enjoys that shit. They get drunk, have fights, and commit suicide and shit. For real, the stats say it.”
I haven’t had that experience of Christmas, nor have the majority of the people around me. There’s a big difference between saying Christmas as currently practiced has lost its way, and saying that it’s full of nihilism and hate. It is what you make of it.
The people who are excited to celebrate the holiday and be with their family in a manner they enjoy don’t see Christmas the way you do, and choosing to make it into such a negative thing is no way to live.