What your looking for is the automatic social graph updates option. limit that to only the first degree and it will only load your friends contact lists
https://cdn.hzrd149.com/fad85b73136650df0ecb636b9ecff7c0da8b9450da6644cfbc03e160f34f81ef.webp
I had it set to 2nd degree by default which ends up loading ~180k to ~200k users for the average nostr user. normally thats not an unreasonable amount of data but loading for saving that large of a social graph can really lag the app
I'm trying to think of a fix for this while still keeping the WoT filtering but for the time being I might just add an option to disable the social graph


