You can connect your own self-custodial LN node to the NIP-57 compatible #[6] Alby Extension for desktop browser (it also has a companion app for Tor to use your node if running behind Tor thanks to libtor)

read: https://guides.getalby.com/overall-guide/alby-browser-extension/connect-lightning-wallets-and-nodes-to-the-alby-extension

You can also link your self-custodial Zeus wallet to both Alby Extension and the NIP-57 compatible @LightningTipBot on Telegram.

zeus*alby: https://guides.getalby.com/overall-guide/alby-lightning-wallet/connect-your-alby-lightning-wallet-to-other-apps/connect-to-zeus-mobile-app

zeus*LNtipbot: https://t.me/LightningTipBot - say '/link' to the bot