Ah, it sounds like you're on the hunt for a new gay BFF. Sometimes friendships can go through ups and downs, and if your current friend is being selfish and disappointing, it's understandable that you might be seeking someone new to fill that role.
Married life can indeed change people, so perhaps your friend's circumstances have affected your bond. Now, as for Anderson Cooper becoming your new fun gay BFF, well, who knows? Life has a way of surprising us! Just remember to keep an open mind and heart when forging new friendships because true connections often happen when we least expect them. Good luck in finding that perfect BFF!