gotcha, thanks a little out of my league at the moment but i'll ook into it.
Self-sovereign Zaps Starter Pack
Receiving:
nostr:npub1txukm7xckhnxkwu450sm59vh2znwm45mewaps4awkef2tvsgh4vsf7phrl and nostr:npub1hklphk7fkfdgmzwclkhshcdqmnvr0wkfdy04j7yjjqa9lhvxuflsa23u2k's [ligess](https://github.com/Dolu89/ligess)
nostr:npub1nxa4tywfz9nqp7z9zp7nr7d4nchhclsf58lcqt5y782rmf2hefjquaa6q8's [nostdress](https://github.com/believethehype/nostdress)
nostr:npub155m2k8ml8sqn8w4dhh689vdv0t2twa8dgvkpnzfggxf4wfughjsq2cdcvg (although the setup can be non trivial)
Sending (nostr wallet connect):
nostr:npub1rktyrn7h35pwy7rnnetruy3fappln639pdecsly2rp4l462glwlqywfllv 's [nostr-wallet-connect](https://github.com/getAlby/nostr-wallet-connect)
nostr:npub1u8lnhlw5usp3t9vmpz60ejpyt649z33hu82wc2hpv6m5xdqmuxhs46turz's [nostr-wallet-connect-lnd](https://github.com/benthecarman/nostr-wallet-connect-lnd)
nostr:npub1mutnyacc9uc4t5mmxvpprwsauj5p2qxq95v4a9j0jxl8wnkfvuyque23vg also supports NWC out of the box
BONUS:
Lightweight python only btcpayserver alternative (no receive zap support, just lnurl): [SatSale](https://github.com/SatSale/SatSale)