Giving my parents the benefit of the doubt has almost killed me. Learned my lesson.
I won’t hold a grudge, it’s “not their fault” for being abusive idiots.
It doesn’t mean I have to forgive them.
It’s working itself out right now. I’m where I’m welcome and aren’t treated/seen as the “mistake”.
I'm sorry. I haven't walked in your shoes. No pun intended. I had a problem with my family and didn't have anything to do with them for a few years. I finally had to let it go. Families can be difficult. No judgment from me. Whatever gives you peace of mind and gets you through the night. All the best and take care.
🫂I appreciate you KingBee
