Rough! I’m not trying to be insulting, I get it. I’m happily married, but when I think of the prospects I would have as a slightly below average but comfortably employed single 40yo that doesn’t live in moms basement .. they look pretty bleak. It wouldn’t be a stunning resumé on my part, but not chopped liver either.

Every girl either tried to get serious about her life but is on her jillionth guy and jaded because today’s single men are equally shallow. Otherwise, never wanted a man and a family to begin with, and bettered herself and saw the world. She has student loans she’ll never be able to repay in a field she’ll never fulfill, old enough to be a grandmother but looks at children like they’re about to turn werewolf. They feel completely unfulfilled but still refuse to acknowledge their basis for building their life has been fundamentally wrong.

There’s another kind of girl though, and it’s increasing. The one that thinks of future generations. The one that understands dollars don’t do the things a Bitcoin does. The one that understands the value of planting a tree that will outlive her. The one that understands permaculture and putting more into the soil than you take out.

Youre obviously not on Facebook, so you don’t like legacy social media. You don’t want a legacy girlfriend either. So as you’ve discerned, it won’t be at the bar or other legacy hookup joints. It will be at a local Bitcoin meetup, or the farmers market, or in a nature preserve. It will be unexpected.

They’re still very rare, but their numbers are growing. Don’t give up. I pray you find one.