I’m grateful for not being indoctrinated. I was baptized as a baby, but then pondered existence in middle school, which lead me to atheism in high school (a private catholic one 😂).
I realized any good morals I developed stemmed from a secular perspective.
My best friend is super Christian which is ironic due to my stance. He roasts my vegan lifestyle, I belittle his deity. I do me. He does his thing. We aim for the same moral ends, but for different reasons. He only annoys me when he tries pushing his beliefs or tries to convince me God exists.
Religious parents should contemplate this question more than non-religious parents. The religious ones are the ones who tend to suppress freedom of choice.