If you feel you have cracked the code to live the way you longed to live please don’t hesitate to share how you did it.
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THIS IS THE BASIC GIST OF WHAT I'VE FOUND SO FAR 
Life is complex, full of competing priorities, and you don’t have control of every aspect of everything that happens. People also change over time so what you want one day may be different the next. I think you can work towards the life that you want, make changes where necessary, experiment with new experiences and learn from the mistakes you make along the way. There isn’t necessarily one perfect way to live though, there are always going to be compromises, but I think you can find contentment and happiness with life from acceptance of what you have achieved at the point you are at.
“I have been and still am a seeker, but I have ceased to question stars and books; I have begun to listen to the teaching my blood whispers to me.”
-Herman Hesse
Nice thank you
My key to success has always been water on the side table, a large gulp, and rolling over.
😊simple
isn't the first step is knowing what "the way you long to live" looks like?
I don't know that there's a "code to crack".
I have posted a few quotes here for you that I know to be true from my own life's experiences (I'm in my late 60s).
Perhaps they'll be useful for you in cracking your own code. 🧡✨
Beautiful thank you
1) Rough experience(s).
2) Getting fed up with repeating the same patterns and throwing in the towel.