I said that even close friends or family members opinions are just like a mirror for you to help see yourself. Change is looking in the mirror & acting. 100% personal choice.
Probably off but that’s how I see it.
Discussion
I always say “know yourself” - but we all have blind spots.
Change will only happen, imho, when we want it. People can want it for us, but that won’t matter unless WE want it.
We have to be motivated for it. And we have to be willing to push through the fear and take action - hold ourself accountable to our success.