I think many of us get distracted and dissuaded from having kids. Like many difficult decisions in life, it never seems like the right time.

I was lucky that I didn't decide to have a child, it happened when I least expected it, when I didn't feel ready for it. But it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened in my life.

Obviously I can't speak for your situation.

Just my 2 sats.

Enjoy being a newly wed first. 🫂