Shut some off.. some of those free ones suck to much spam..

i'm not having good reachability on the network. i suspect it's because i'm not on many paid relays.
That has nothing to do with it, I donβt use any except to read content. I recommend grabbing follows from mutuals and looking at global, start interacting with ppl, youβll get follows.
it's not about interactions, i know that takes time. what i mean is that when i check with technical tools to see where the posts get relayed, they hardly get relayed anywhere.