be humbly proud.

right sized

I’m not God

I’m not trash

acknowlesge you strengths and weaknesses

imo, false modesty is more devious

false grandeur usually means ur just not confident and trying to save face or present what u think people want to see to fit in. like a baffoon trying to keep distance

but the false modesty is like a snake trying to snuggle up to you

yuk