Trying to understand what gets people to stay those 10 years instead of leaving when it feels boring and there’s nothing to talk about

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Understanding.

Having someone you like and that understands you is a rare and beautiful thing.

Yeah. That.

it doesn't mean the relationship is going to look like you want though.

and TBH

i screwed it up looking for something new and exciting too. it took a few years before I realized my mistake.

Seems like a lot of luck is involved too

luck to find something like that,

wisdom to recognize it,

and discipline to not fuck it up.