Did she like work her ass off to get where she's at?

Or did she have like help from friends and family in connections?

I ask because usually when people have that it's it's like they don't really know the struggle to get to where they are.

And if they struggled to get where they are they appreciate it more and are more humble that's why I mentioned this.

The only thing I can tell you is to tell her what you just said. Maybe not the insubordination part LOL or being out of her League just tell her how you feel.

And tell her that you don't like that and you want it to change