Who should I use as an alternative? I like coinos and would be more patient to see what their plan is. Can't you call for open audits instead of just bashing a good service? It's FOSS no?

The criticisms are valid but plenty of crapware has bubbled up in the Nostr space. It's not like it's surprising. Someone could vibe code nsec-stealing malware right now and shill it over plenty of relays and it would likely be an effective attack. Nostr has basically no expectation of privacy or security, except that some events are encrypted.

What's the solution for the average pleb in response to this? My sats are still in coinos and I withdraw manually. Don't seem to be personally affected but I rarely have more than 10k sats and never more than 50k.