It’s not that. I haven’t (re)tried any clients recently, but last time I used Iris for example, it almost set my phone on fire.
Damus seems to have gotten better about that, but I also removed some relays like some ppl suggested.
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Oh, I have another idea. One of the biggest complaints I see is that nostr is like 99% bitcoin stuff, and it is.
Adding the ability to follow hashtags on your feed seems like a good way to solve that.