Yes, there should be tradeoffs to quick cheap payments. BCH does it with big blocks. At scale the only people running nodes will be FAANG companies. So much for making sure a few can't make decisions for the many.
Discussion
if you read satoshi's email
you will know:
satoshi designed bitcoin as money
of course there are advantages and disadvantages of almost everything
https://www.doubloin.com/learn/bitcoin-block-size-debate
that is why stateists like saylor and criminals like blackrock propagate store of value and tell you that it is not money, does not compete with dollar, euro and banks. saylor just did it on video this week