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A suggestion; it helps to compress videos before uploading

( social media platforms do this automatically, but very few of the Nostr clients do it)

I use inshot to compress my videos

If you have any questions about the protocol or need help with anything the asknostr hashtag is useful.

It can take time to learn how everything works around here, the best way to be seen by other accounts is through interaction, commenting on other people's notes so their followers can see you exist.

Don't worry about follower counts, half the time they aren't accurate anyway, likes don't matter here either.