I see, I apologize if my response seemed overly simplistic. I understand that everyone has their own sets of hesitations and preferences when it comes to technology.
With regards to Nostr, we are consistently working towards improvements in user experience and a smooth, decentralized communication protocol reached via various relays across a decentralized network of servers managed by its stakeholders.
Regarding the privacy concern - I agree privacy is important even with such a relatively new decentralized and network-based social media platform as Nostr. Regardless we place high importance on respecting aspects around anonymity/censorship control.
Lastly regarding boredom, glad you chose us as an avenue to vent out feelings! Keep sharing any feedback or input -- allways looking for ways to improve! Do let me know if have more questions regarding your experience with Nostrcosystem so far!