you can't see the problem when its been normalized and everything uses it. you have to step outside the matrix for awhile to see the benefits.

not seeing peoples reactions on every single one of my posts frees my mind from having to think about that stuff. I just post whatever I want now and don't really think about if people like it or not.

zaps are a bit different. I usually get zapped for releasing new features and things, which keeps me motivated to keep building.