When I feel something like that, I notice it and use empathy as an antidote.
It's not necessarily abnormal to feel it but our feelings are supposed to teach us not rule us.
When the King/Quesn is on the throne we won't fall for it and will learn something. When the King/Queen is not home, it's harmful because we won't take action to take care of ourself, see it is harmful and end it.
Runaway emotions are a sign of immaturity in my opinion. Satipatthana prevents runaway emotions and turns them into gold.
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