Imagine being a good person, helping people, being generous, looking for mutually beneficial solutions, treat no-one like they're an enemy but instead try to figure out how to resolve things. Do that for 35+ years. Then get backstabbed by *everyone* over lies, false accusations, deception. Getting no chance to explain, attempts of explanations you make either are twisted into something malicious or dismissed. In the mean time, you're being attacked, harassed on a daily basis. And people do everything to steal all your work and effort away from you.
At some point, you aren't going to be "all-positive" anymore, because you'll find out that the vast majority of people don't really have morals or decency, and aren't really capable of thinking, or hearing your side of the story. They just want an excuse as "permission" to be complete assholes.
