NIP04 DMs leak metadata; NIP17 can help prevent that.
https://github.com/nostr-protocol/nips/blob/master/17.md
If one minds their metadata to be revealed... use your own relay, that's simple.
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This requires the person you DM to also trust the relay, but not everyone trusts the relays you trust.
hm, I think of the DM stuff more like an "inner circle" thing, where I talk to like minded. A group, that sets up their own relay. for the other cases, can't see harm in metadata.
