This is a scenario in your mind. You and your wife are far more likely to die in a car crash or of cancer (hope you don’t) — why aren’t you fretting more about that?
Because the state has instilled fear. The fear is the cheapest and most efficient way to accomplish its ends. It’s very costly for it to do what you suggest in reality.
It’s not impossible it would try and that you would be its target, but it’s unlikely, and the real problem is the fear that’s been instilled.
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