I am sorry too. Life brought me to be there to listen them speak about their partners in private explaining how they lie and they plan exit strategies..I heard them complain about new partners not bringing them in vacation as promised or not giving them expensive jewelry. I have never heard a men speaking about their partner as a source of something to be rejected when not useful.
Lucky me I have as a partner my best childhood friend that has a different culture. I am very worried for my child that has a great heart and will probably pay for his honesty.